“Adversity forces you to awaken a deeper dimension of who you are”
Moving Beyond the Loss of Your Child
The grief seems endless. It rolls over you in waves of sadness, depression, guilt, fear, or anger. The depth of emotion creates chaos and confusion around you. You don’t know how you can be there for your family. Your health and your working life suffer. That huge weight you’re dragging behind you can make it difficult to get out of bed because the day ahead looks empty and hopeless without your beloved child. It’s hard to even keep breathing. What used to be normal doesn’t exist anymore.
After a while you think you’re starting to get over it. And then you see or hear something that triggers a memory of your child, you break down in tears and you’re back on the roller coaster of despair.
Because you’re still a mother in spite of your loss. What you’re going through is a normal healthy response to a devastating loss. But it can be hard to even talk about it because no one understands how to respond to your pain. Or friends trot out clichés like “time heals all wounds” or” he’s in a better place” that aren’t helpful at all.
There IS someone who understands what you’re going through…
Zoya Bokhoor-Mills also lost a child. She knows what it’s like to live with the depths of pain and the feeling that nothing can help - but grief coaching changed her life.
I have a sense of peace and I feel whole again.
“It has been four years since my only son was murdered and I have done a lot of work to heal. The coaching sessions I have had with Zoya have always found some area where there was still a lot of pain. The consistent results have been that I have a sense of peace, the pain has diminished significantly, and I feel whole. I highly recommend working with her, no matter what your loss and whenever it occurred. Life does go on and we can remember the love.”
Pamela B. Woodland Hills, Ca
“Zoya is an incredible intuitive who is trained in various healing modalities. She intuitively knew what questions and tools I needed to kick start my life again”
Cara, Santa Barbara, CA
IN ZOYA’s WORDS:
There was nothing left in life for me.
“After I lost my only son, I felt there was nothing left in life for me. I realized that in order to go on I needed a new outlook. I was a different person before the loss of my son. Everything that I do and who I am now are because of my loss. My connection with my son has made it possible for me to live this life with gratitude, positive outlook and most of all, love.”
It was a natural next step for her to train as a grief coach so she could help other mothers who’ve lost a child. She customizes a structured process to your individual needs and combines it with coaching skills and Reiki energy healing to help you heal body, mind, emotions, and spirit.
Find your joy and happiness again.
Zoya’s compassion and heartfelt guidance can help you find new ways to connect with your joy, happiness, and optimism. She combines a balance of spiritually and intuition based coaching combined with the reality of the world we live in on this planet.
You learn concrete, action-based tools that you can take home and use outside of sessions. Here are some of the changes you can expect:
Stop suffering, release the painful thoughts that are bringing you to your knees so that you can look at your memories without emotional or physical pain.
Create a new connection with your child.
Rediscover your deep connection with your husband, partner, and family so you become an active partner and mother again.
Discover who you really are as a person beyond being a mother and feel a vibrant new life arising from deep within your body and soul
Give yourself the gift of a new life and a new you.
If you’re ready to commit to taking back your life, and cutting through what has stopped you healing, schedule a free 30-60min “Take the next steps to your emotional healing!” strategy session with Zoya. If you want to take your time and take the slower route to recovery, sign up for her free newsletter. Choose whichever option resonates with you – or both if you’d like. Either way is fine.
To schedule your free “Take the next steps to your emotional healing!” strategy session, click here or call 866-908-4325 or email: zoya@healingwithcompassion.com
I now experience a deeper healing and awareness
Zoya created a very warm, inviting and safe space for me to work on healing my inner child, process past traumas and work on my self confidence and self image. She was so intuitive and empathetic and though I've done therapy and lots of inner work prior, she helped me dive deeper into things than I every have which resulted in deeper healing and awareness. I'm so grateful to have met her.
Unresolved trauma occurs when we experienced overwhelming event(s) that is too much to tolerate. To protect ourselves from feeling the pain, we start pushing it down and avoiding the disturbing emotions. That is why some people turn to negative habits to calm and soothe their nervous system, such as drinking alcohol, using drugs or turning to food to name a few additions